Monday, 14 November 2016

Baby essentials

Baby Essentials
As a first time parent it can be really difficult knowing the difference between what are essential need to have items and ones that are very much considered nice to have. 

One thing I have learnt through being a parent is lots of items you think are essential, have proved to be nothing of the sort! 

Everyone will offer you advice and their personal pearls of parenting wisdom, but whilst nicely meant it can sometimes be overwhelming. 

In my case this meant I sat and procrastinated about what to buy so much so, that our baby was in danger of being born with nothing ready. 

I am pleased to say however that I did eventually get my act together well almost together before Noah's birth. 
Baby essentials
Quite a few people have asked me to do this post, so it's dedicated to the items we have purchased and found really useful. This is in the hope that it will help other soon to be parents distinguish between useful products and those that are a gimmick or non-essential. I've left it eleven months so that I can genuinely say and feel confident in the recommendations I am making. 

The important thing to point out before I say anything else is that a new born baby in fact needs very little in the way of products and goods. They need love, food and somewhere cosy to sleep. 

You will have romantic views of outfits you will dress your little one in: tops, trousers, dresses, tights, waistcoats, coats etc. The reality is they will live in baby grows (all-in-one suits) no one has time to be faffing with separate items, well not till they are about six months old. 

Stock up on at least fourteen baby grows and twelve baby vests. Make sure the baby grows and vests have poppers and that you can quickly access nappies and easily remove/put them on.

Baby Essentials
Buy those which are appropriate for the season in which your baby will be born, long sleeves for Winter and cap sleeves for Summer. This also applies to cardigans (minimum of two), Jackets and hats. 
Baby essentials
Refrain from buying loads of things yourself, you will have loads of new born clothes that will be gifted to you, so many so you could put your baby in a different outfit everyday. If you want to purchase bits yourself go for the outfit that your baby will come home in from the hospital, a coat, or purchase baby clothes that are older, six to nine months. 


There are numerous options for sleeping, Moses basket, crib, cot and many products on the market promising you and your new baby a good nights sleep.

We decided not to use a Moses basket for many reasons, friends had advised us that they were a total waste of money, that their little ones would not sleep in them and for those that would they only last a few months. 

Instead of a Moses basket we opted for a Stokke Sleepi Mini (£445), beautiful in design, the wheels make moving it really easy, the size is amazingly efficient and it meant that Noah happily fitted in our room for the first six months. 

Stokke Sleepi Mini
It also meant that we didn't then have the issue of transferring Noah from Moses basket to a cot. This also has the benefit of being able to be extended to a full size cot and bed.

I also highly recommend our Chicco Next2Me Bedside Crib (£165). Perfect for being close to your baby, feeding and from my experience getting back to sleep quicker as involves less getting up and down in the night. 

Remember if you're going for a cot you will also need a fitted sheet I opted for The Little Green Sheep organic fitted sheet and a mattress protector (but can also recommend DK Glovesheets), cellular blanket and a baby sleeping bag.

Baby Essentials
Baby Essentials
But our best product definitely had to be the Sleepyhead Delux Portable Baby Pod (£110). 
Sleepyhead Deluxe Portable Baby Pod
Sleepyhead Deluxe Portable Baby Pod
What might seem like a very expensive pillow, was an absolute godsend. This is the pillow just keeps on giving, I found so many uses for this pillow, tummy time, play mat, perfect for travelling, changing station and a lovely bed that little Noah was wonderfully snuggled in.  

You only need to read the wonderful reviews for this product to see that it is money well spent. The only downside is that the Sleepyhead is outgrown well before eight months. At six months we moved Noah into the Sleepyhead Grand.

I found finding the right baby monitor incredibly stressful. I knew that it was an important purchase and so did plenty of research. But seriously there is just too much choice. Do you go for audio only, one with video, what about a sound and movement sensors. One word STRESS!

For me personally I wanted a monitor with a sound and movement sensor, sudden infant death syndrome frighted the life out of me. So we opted for the Angelcare Movement and Sound Monitor AC401 (£74.99).  

Baby Essentials

This has been a great monitor, it has relaxed me knowing that the alarm will go off if movement and sound is not detected. 

It was easy to set up but you want to make sure that you have done it right, especially if you have chosen a movement pressure pad. Setting this up after birth having had little sleep and under pressure is not advisable. 

In the early days white noise is also a great way to settle a baby. I found the following apps great for at home and on the go. Sleepy Sounds and Sound Sleeper. If you're looking for a teddy Ewan the dream sheep combines soothing music and lights babies seem to love him. 

Baby essentials
Bath and changing:
Some people will tell you that a baby bath is not essential but to be honest I really think it is. Whilst it takes up space and you probably won't use it beyond three months, the alternative is a top and toe baby bowl or holding your baby desperately trying not to drown them and breaking your back over a bath at the same time. 

I still remember bathing Noah for the first time they feel tiny and like you might break them. A baby bath means that your baby is securely supported and gives you the ability to use your hands to wash them. 

I chose the Tippitoes Mini Bath (£13) which was a great buy, deep enough to wet the entire baby but allows them to sit comfortably, supported with anti-slip pads. 
Baby Essentials
Another wonderful bath is the Angelcare Soft Touch Bath (£18.99) with support. 

You will also need towels and toiletries as well as a thermometer for the bath to check the water temperature. Finding towels with hoods for a baby is a challenge, shops to look in are Mothercare, Dunelm and Mamas and Papas. 

Baby essentials
Stockpile a supply of nappies, wipes and cotton wool. Go easy though on purchasing too many first stage nappies; babies grow quickly and they will out grow this size quickly.  
Baby Essentials
One thing I didn't register for ages, is that most newborn baby nappies have a marker on the front which changes colour when your baby needs changing.

A great purchase for disposing of nappies has to be the Tommee Tippee nappy disposal bin (£24.95). Ours has been well used and I would absolutely repurchase it. 

Baby Essentials
In the UK rubbish is collected weekly and in some areas general waste fortnightly. Nappies absolutely stink but this bin means that they are hygienically locked away and can conveniently be disposed of in your weekly rubbish.  

I have written a whole post on breastfeeding here

Breastfeeding is a lot harder that it looks it can be one of the most stressful things about being a new mummy but I promise if you stick with it that it does get easier. In the early days it's painful and very tiring to have a little person constantly feeding (cluster feeding). 

A feeding essential that I found useful; have at least two tubes of Lansinoh cream, use it regularly after each feed, even if you don't have pain to start with. Make sure you pack a tube in you hospital bag. 

Baby essentials
It's tempting to express milk early on, don't resist the urge at least till you are in a routine with your feeding and milk supply. I would say at last six weeks. Buy the best breast pump you can, trust me it will be money well spent. I went for Medela Swing Breast Pump (£134.99).
Baby essentials
Its worth sharing that most breast pumps you can purchase different size teats. 

Regardless of how you decide to feed your baby you will need breastfeeding pads. They are as much for keeping milk in, as they are for protecting your nipples rubbing on clothing and getting sore. I loved the Johnson's nursing pads. 

Baby essentials
With a baby under one you will need to sterilise everything. I loved my Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature Microwave Steriliser (£19.99).
Baby essentials
Within four minutes I could sterilise bottles, breast pump attachments and other feeding utensils. 


Buying a pram and pushchair is a big investment, think wisely about your needs and lifestyle. I've known loads of friends who have regretted their pushchair purchase six months in. 

Big is not always better, consider your needs, are you living in a busy city? Will you be getting on and off busses? Huge off terrain wheels then are probably not the easiest to navigate around shopping isles and on a bus. Also think about the weight of your pushchair, if a lift is out could you carry the pushchair and your baby. 

We did absolutely tons of research to find a pushchair that met our needs, our Babyzen Yoyo plus 0+ (£485) is definitely the best purchase we made and still is eleven months on.

Baby essentials
This is a brilliant everyday pushchair, it is lightweight, easy to collapse, works on a variety of terrains and can travel in the overhead locker in the cabin of an aeroplane. I have used this pushchair everyday, taking it over cobbles, gravel, thick grass, down and up steps, run with it, folded it and un-folded it hundreds of times as well as taking it abroad.

A perfect addition to your pushchair purchase will be a Snooze Sleep Shade (£19.99), protection from the sun, wind and black out for such much needed sleep.

Baby essentials
If you intend to travel in a car with your baby you will need a car seat, in fact most hospitals won't let you leave without one. Like prams there is so much choice and it can be overwhelming. Car seats come in different groups which are specific to a child's age, weight and height.   

We went for the Cybex Cloud Q Group 0+ in Autumn Gold (£220). 

Baby essentials
As a family we do a considerable amount of driving so we wanted a car seat that passed all the latest safety standards and checks. I also wanted a seat that was comfortable to ride in for Noah. We have been really happy with the car seat, with detachable covers for easy washing.

Travelling in a car with a new baby can be stressful if you can't physically view them. One of my best purchases was the Streetwize extra large super view mirror (£11.95).

Baby essentials
The mirror was easy to fit, is large in size and as its plastic you have no worries of it shattering. Having this mirror has meant I could see Noah and an added benefit he could see us.

A baby needs changing lots so when out and about on your travels you will want a bag that holds everything you need for your little one. I am going to do a what's in my changing bag post in a few weeks but until then here is a sneaky peek at mine.

baby essentials
I was keen to have a bag that was practical but also looked nice, PacaPod changing bags are just that. 
I loved the Jura (£59) in beautiful Cranberry, which comes with a 3-in 1 bag, changer pod, feeding pod and changing mat. 
Baby essentials
Babies don't require many toys, Noah wasn't really interested in any until around four months. There are however some parent essentials that mean you can place your baby down whilst doing every day tasks.

For me our best purchases have to be baby activity gyms and a swing seat.

Mine and Noah's favourite activity gyms have to be the Skip Hop Treetop Friends Activity Gym (£69.95) and Fisher-Price Rainforest Melodies & Lights Deluxe Baby Play Gym (£36)
Our baby swing for me was a god send, Noah hated being put down which made showering or really doing anything impossible. The Fisher Price Rainforest swing and seat (£59.99) meant that Noah would happily swing away to soothing nature sounds whilst I got on. 
Baby essentials
So there you have it all my baby essentials and products that I have really valued buying. Do you have any recommendations or things I have missed off? 

There are also some essentials for you too, now I can't really say I thought about this before the birth of Noah and I wish I had. You will need a minimum of two good nursing bras, getting ones that un-clips at the strap and have modesty cotton inside are fab. You will also need nursing tops, failing having any of these a vest top under a jumper or top will suffice. Easy to open nightwear to feed is also needed if you are breastfeeding.  

Lastly a good bit of advice from a mummy friend is that with Amazon Prime anything you need or have forgotten can be with you either within 2 hours or the next day, so there is no need to stockpile. As an added bonus, you can while away a few hours whilst the baby is cluster feeding, Internet shopping sneaking in treats for yourself amongst the essentials!

Other pregnancy and parenting posts to read:

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Monday, 17 October 2016

Will Pixi transform your skincare regime

Pixi Skintreats
Do you ever wake up look in the mirror and think I look rough? If you don't well done your doing something right, keep up the good work. Well since I've had a baby and been starved of sleep I frequently look in the mirror and think just that; black bags that you could take to Waitrose to save 5p on your weekly shop and unkempt locks that Medusa would be proud of, which is appropriate as at present I could turn anyone looking at me to stone. 

But with a return to work coming up in the not so distant future I thought it was about time that I pulled myself together and at the very least tried to go some way to remedy the situation so as not to look like a Halloween extra. 

Now we all know that my beauty regime is hit and miss. Those of you shouting in the back row that I don't have a beauty regime, pipe down. As a parent I don't have hours to beautify myself, it has to be quick and more importantly worth my expense. 

As you know I've been loving the Sunday Riley Good Genes, if you haven't read my review pop over here and take a look. 
Sunday Riley

I generally steer clear of products that are over hyped, often being disappointed by the over inflated claims that don't live out to be true in real life. Trialling the Sunday Riley Good Genes however reminded me that sometimes the hype is worth all the glowing reports.

I will most definitely be repurchasing this product. 

So with this in mind and having learnt a lesson; when I saw that Beth from ToastyWrites had tried some of the Pixi products which I have been lusting after for a good while, I thought to myself I would give some of their moisturising products a go. 

Pixi Hydrating Milky Serum
The first thing I noticed on opening this delight was the wonderful smelling Jojoba and Geranium. The serum is superbly absorbent and sinks in effortlessly. It did a great job in only a short amount of use to moisturise and revitalise my skin so that it looked dewy and healthy again. The product however is thick and I found the pipette absolutely useless in dispensing the product. In fact it is not designed for the purpose and use intended. 

I ended up using the product straight from the rather cheap appearing container and in turn used far more than was needed. But that said I enjoyed the product and would happily repurchase as my main moisturiser.

Beauty Sleep Cream (£24) 
Pixi Beauty Sleep Cream
I am not great at moisturising my skin so a product that I can leave over night to work its magic is really appealing. I have really dry skin so the addition of mango butter and lavender made my skin silky and as the consistency is not to thick, goes a long way and is easily absorbed.

The Pixie skintreat products I tried I'm not sure would transform your skincare routine, however, they were nice to use and I would recommend having a try of them or start hinting to your other half/friend/family to add them to your Christmas wish list as a rather nice stocking filler. Using them has got me intrigued to try the other Pixi products on offer. 

Have you used Pixi and do you have any recommendations for me to try next? 

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Friday, 30 September 2016

Grabbing the last bit of Summer

Summer holidays
With Autumn just around the corner any excuse to grab some sun and the last glimpse of Summer I'm there. 

So last month we packed up our bags, jumped on a plane and headed for Caudeval in the South of France. Our villa was set in the beautiful French countryside, an hours drive from Carcassonne, Foix and a short distance from the historic market town of Mirepoix. 
Google map Caudeval
As you all know I have a love hate relationship with flying. I love the end destination but the travelling I am not so keen on.Travelling abroad with Noah for the first time added another level of nervousness but I'm pleased to share that I needn't have worried. The little man was a joy to travel with, in fact he slept the entire flight! To my huge relief and those I'm sure of the passengers around us. 

Now we all know that sleep is not his forte so managing to pull sleep off at 39,000 feet is quite the achievement. Sadly the same can't be said for the rest of the week with regards to the sleep, but small mercies.  

Travelling up the gravel driveway to our villa I knew instantly we were in for a treat. The house, gardens and swimming pool were breathtakingly beautiful. 
Villas south of France
Villas south of France
South of France villas
Many happy hours were spent lounging around the swimming pool, whilst Noah perfected his water wings. 
Holidays in France
The little man is most certainly a water baby, the temperature saw his mummy squirming and gingerly entering the water. Whilst Noah jovially soaked everyone, splashing like a 'Looney toons'. 

But the best bit for me was the peace and tranquillity having travelled from the hustle and bustle of London. There was absolutely nothing to see for miles around the Villa, apart from the Pyrenees mountains, rolling fields, hay bales and beautiful sunsets, it was the perfect place to unwind. 

Things to do locally:

1. Mirepoix: A lovely picturesque town steeped in history and character.

On Mondays the local town of Mirepoix holds a superb market, in fact its an absolute must if you are in the region. 
Best markets France
It is all set in a picture perfect little town with beautiful medieval half-timber coloured houses with beautiful carved sculptures, restaurants and shops. 
The market offers several wine vendors, a wonderful variety of local cheeses, cured sausages, fresh fish, olives, vegetables, snails and other local specialities. 
French Markets
You will have to arrive early as it gets very busy and the cafes become a hive of activity. It's a great idea to get there early and have a yummy breakfast in one of the quaint restaurants. 

It has an awe-inspiring cathedral that oversees the proceedings of the market town, taking centre stage in the town square. 
It definitely rates as one of the best markets we have been too in France. 

2. Carcassonne: A medieval Citadel

Another wonderful place to visit is Carcassonne, a 12th century fortified town, filled with wonderful restaurants, shops and a superb rampart. 
A perfect medieval castle that looks just like something out of the pages of Sleeping Beauty.
You could easily spend a day wandering around the lanes, shopping and building up an appetite to eat. 

Its the perfect place to sit outside a cafe and people watch. 

3. Foix: A commune with an imposing castle Ch√Ęteau de Foix in the centre of town

Foix is breathtakingly beautiful with its picturesque town and formidable castle that takes centre stage in the town. 
The town is the perfect place to have lunch and then walk it off visiting the castle. Make sure you wear sensible shoes and those with little ones in a buggy, a baby carrier is a much better choice due to all the hills and cobbles. 
The views from the castle are breathtaking completely worth all the hard work getting to the top. 
All in all we had a wonderful first holiday together. There was no down time like in previous holidays so reading a good book in the sunshine was out of the question with little Noah, but all in all we had good fun and more importantly we would do it all again. 

Noah however was not so keen on returning home, he did a small sit in protest about returning home.
Travelling with a baby

Top tips travelling with a baby: 

1.Feed your baby on take off and landing, it works a treat for helping with their ears. Take a bag of toys on board so that your baby is entertained. Depending on their age small books, rubber bath toys (which have a dual purpose), stickers and puzzles are all great. 

2.Take a lightweight buggy and bag protector to protect it in the hold or overhead locker in the case of the Yoyo. I am still loving our Yoyo+ pushchair, definitely one of my best purchases.  
2.Take a sling, useful for so many situations. Travelling around the airport when you need your hands, outings and most importantly naps. I love the BabyBjorn Miracle Baby Carrier we bought. 
Baby essentials

3. Take a sunshade for the pushchair, this will mean that your baby can sleep whilst out and about. I have absolutely loved the Snooze Sleep Shade and got so much use out of it this Summer. 
Sleep shade
4. Portable highchair: Sometimes your little one will not want to go in a highchair. The Phil and Ted Wriggle Wrapper is perfect you can tie it to yourself so that your baby is secure but you still have your hands to eat and drink. It can also be used if your little one falls asleep on a bed to secure them. 
Where did you end up this summer? Share your adventures in the comments below.

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